Nah a simple “ I got the message. Take care of yourself 🙏 “ is good enough. No need to chase people who aren’t reciprocating your energy. Life’s too short for that.
2026-06-07 20:33:56
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Phoenix :
Being patient and understanding with an avoidant is hard. It gets so exhausting when I keep making an effort to walk the line of showing I still want to talk, while also respecting when she wants space and isn't interested. What really frustrates me is how I'm expected to keep showing an interest in spending time together, despite her always saying she doesn't wanna talk or hang out. But then I get told I'm being "distant" the moment I stop making those efforts.
2026-06-07 06:22:06
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luumie :
Did all this and was still discarded 🥀
2026-06-06 03:03:54
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thediaryofdaisieslife :
He blocked me. Said he didn’t love me anymore. And , me with an anxious attachment still showed up to his house trying to talk to him a week after the break up. He said “ I’ve already said everything I needed to say. Refused to talk to me and was asked to leave. “ I left. I was crushed. It’s been two weeks he never reached out. But two weeks before he broke up with me he said he loved me. It was so confusing. Anyway. I’m trying to learn from my attachment style. I’ve left him alone ever since. I still love him. But I just think he’s ever going to come back. So I’m trying to move on. In the healthiest way possible . By healing myself. But I miss him.
2026-06-22 18:14:23
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jenn_xennial :
I don’t know where we stand, that’s why I’m not talking yet
2026-06-18 04:48:10
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lifeisatrapbutdealwithit :
Wake up and chose yourself. Learned the hard way… better today than many years ago. Dont waste your life waiting for someone to chose you, they need to heal, you aren’t responsible for their actions and behavior, we were always sold a lie- fix them. Fix yourself and move on! They are not worth your time!!
2026-07-01 23:19:40
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★ | katastrophyc :
remember to not just say this stuff but to make your actions feel them too, give them space but check on them, the only way to make them actually comfortable to slowly realize you're not there to control them but to support them.
basically, is like getting a rescued animal, we're always in a fight or flight mode, and we're so used to being alone, is hard to not be
2026-06-20 20:46:32
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Kyle-Lynn :
I could say all this and still be ignored
2026-07-06 03:32:24
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zahra :
nahh dont say this to an avoidant
2026-06-18 20:54:20
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MsMamaAgogo :
Nope. You boys need to meet me halfway. Leaving my 25yr marriage bc of all the work I did to make him feel ok. 🚩
2026-07-17 03:18:02
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nothtay :
Did this it also doesn’t work btw! 🫶
2026-06-24 01:07:50
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Martin :
just don’t do anything, they’re dry ? just like the message, they don’t come into you ? just do the same. Life is too short for mind game.
2026-06-11 14:30:20
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Carol :
Nah I gave up, said good luck, nice meeting you. Take care
2026-06-09 19:11:01
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aoliv. :
I mean.. uh we're just friend now.. should I just follow this?
2026-07-06 14:24:06
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Bethhers2292 :
This isn’t distance this is decision making
2026-06-07 12:15:18
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Ellen ⚢ :
nah i deserve better
2026-06-26 12:58:21
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Chun Li Fit :
Hubs is going thru something rn & he is on therapy, we are in a long distance relationship & he said he needs to work on himself 🥺
2026-06-12 01:44:00
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Bernice 🌼 :
HaHaHa...I just said I can't date a child.
2026-07-31 02:06:39
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srphm_11 :
None of this works🥺
2026-06-30 06:51:57
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Ashley Deal :
These are really good
2026-07-11 03:24:59
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aleks ♡⋆. 𐙚 ˚ :
I’ve said I understand her, but that I also need time to adjust. She called it a crisis, and that everything is always a crisis. I’ve lost my best friend
2026-07-12 06:52:29
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aidan :
so what should I do when I have a constant feeling she cheating on me
2026-06-30 21:26:07
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lula☆ :
I'm sorry but Attract Without Chasing by Elena Hayes should be mandatory reading for anyone who feels stuck in life. the workbook alone changed everything for me
2026-06-06 00:33:12
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blanka :
great advice bro but after my experience i truly believe avoidants need to be avoided and we need to do everything possible to prevent creating more
2026-06-12 14:40:05
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