Being patient and understanding with an avoidant is hard. It gets so exhausting when I keep making an effort to walk the line of showing I still want to talk, while also respecting when she wants space and isn't interested. What really frustrates me is how I'm expected to keep showing an interest in spending time together, despite her always saying she doesn't wanna talk or hang out. But then I get told I'm being "distant" the moment I stop making those efforts.
2026-06-07 06:22:06
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princess___ :
How long will it take until an avoidant person gets back to communicate? 🥲 It's been 2 days and I don't know if we are okay or not.
2026-06-12 02:21:02
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Deviiii :
Nah a simple “ I got the message. Take care of yourself 🙏 “ is good enough. No need to chase people who aren’t reciprocating your energy. Life’s too short for that.
2026-06-07 20:33:56
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dnls.m :
just don’t do anything, they’re dry ? just like the message, they don’t come into you ? just do the same. Life is too short for mind game.
2026-06-11 14:30:20
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Bethhers2292 :
This isn’t distance this is decision making
2026-06-07 12:15:18
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Chun Li Fit :
Hubs is going thru something rn & he is on therapy, we are in a long distance relationship & he said he needs to work on himself 🥺
2026-06-12 01:44:00
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Carol :
Nah I gave up, said good luck, nice meeting you. Take care
2026-06-09 19:11:01
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Yorleth💫 :
nice
2026-06-06 00:33:12
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lula☆ :
I'm sorry but Attract Without Chasing by Elena Hayes should be mandatory reading for anyone who feels stuck in life. the workbook alone changed everything for me
2026-06-06 00:33:12
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Luisa :
read The Forbidden Laws of Human Influence by Elias Varnor(thank me later)
2026-06-06 12:13:40
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blanka :
great advice bro but after my experience i truly believe avoidants need to be avoided and we need to do everything possible to prevent creating more
2026-06-12 14:40:05
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Edenrash :
😳😳😳
2026-06-07 13:07:39
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