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@shaythethey: I am never in a rush to get to know anyone because bonds aren’t built through speed running connection. Many people will try to speed run connection so that they can feel comfortable disrespecting you. Few people actually are deserving of getting to know you many people will have have to be kept at an arms length in life. ##reserved##privacy##access##proximity##shaythethey

Shay the They
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truqueenlit
Truqueenlit :
The old saying is still true today: familiarity breeds contempt
2026-06-12 14:24:09
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fkasnaxx
snax :
Never let anyone get too casual, it quickly turns into character discounts. 😒
2026-06-12 13:19:25
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evolushyn_architech
Evolushyn_Architech :
“Familiarity breeds contempt!”💙
2026-06-12 20:22:25
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_ms.materialistic
nonbelonger :
familiarity breeds comtempt ‼️‼️
2026-06-12 13:33:26
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afikan_1
V_pixieᥫ᭡:as in the heart ? :
I believe the closer you are to someone, the more respect is needed🥺🥰
2026-06-12 13:47:50
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kemc3
KE MC :
PREACH! I had a contractor do a job for me. After the work was completed (I was on a deadline of that day) I realized I would NEVER hire him again. His semi-familiarity with me led to unprofessionalism. No thank you
2026-06-12 17:36:09
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op839780
Ona :
Their endgame was to take things from you, their strategy proximity and "friendship", you shutting them off when they start to impose their extractive dynamics makes them think they are not gonna make it and they lose patience, then they try to extract all they can hastily before you go because they know they lost you at some point
2026-06-12 13:22:27
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5thhousereadings
5thhousereadings :
This is true. This is why I don’t let anyone close anymore.
2026-06-12 19:47:09
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deenaohkay
DeenaOhKay :
I no longer want deep relationships with anyone outside my house
2026-06-13 00:00:24
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bigtiny2387
bigTINY :
Gotta keep folks at a distance
2026-06-12 15:19:02
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iamjamharris
iamjamharris :
This. So much safer to be admired from afar than experienced up close.
2026-06-12 18:37:39
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lxxoaquh0pwp
lxxoaquh0pwp :
ALWAYS HAPPENED TO ME. Almost every friendship I had, friend gets more mouthy and disrespectfully rude as soon as we become closer
2026-06-13 21:17:52
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idontknowher_19
Deborah ♡ :
they become too comfortable!
2026-06-13 13:51:51
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o202520250
O :
Thats why i stay surface and the first time you get disrespectful I remove myself
2026-06-14 00:48:57
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chrissy6914
Chrissy 🤍 :
This!! Now you gotta pull your energy all the way back
2026-06-13 14:41:14
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pinkbarbie_sisi
Beauty_🦋Inside&Out🦋♊️ :
Never get to comfortable in my space…
2026-06-14 03:49:28
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iam_walking_real_estate
Spiritual•Authority•144,000 :
I’ve experienced This exact sentiment‼️💯 Great breakdown, commentary✍🏽
2026-06-13 15:56:59
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escapefromlagos
Escape from Lagos :
That’s why I don’t let people get too close
2026-06-15 09:14:11
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thecuratedlifeofhk
thecuratedlifeofhelenak✨👑💋 :
Don’t have any more deep relationships or friendships in me. Long handed spoon only me pls! 😭
2026-06-12 16:08:54
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just.jay.j
Jay :
This is so true that’s why when I get a whiff of something funky I fall allll the way back 🤦‍♀️I talk to too many ppl at work I never learn my lesson being too friendly
2026-06-12 14:40:22
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secondactsally
SecondActSally :
familiarity broods resentment
2026-06-12 15:34:16
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kami_og
I’m_tha_blueprint :
Facts 💯💯 what’s even crazier is I don’t know them
2026-06-12 16:15:07
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wajy127
waj@y :
we can be compatible because of season/situation of life we're in but what happened when one of us bounce back, heal, outgrown the season....... the day I realized that , I started to embrace small talk I beg let's talk about the weather and education system & new technology coz where do you wanna go with my deep secret
2026-06-12 17:22:42
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