My heart breaks for all the 12 year old girls who have no way of knowing this like I didnt :(
2026-06-12 19:06:35
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duurp 🗡️ :
My mother told me “you just think you’re better than me” and I was like I mean.
2026-06-12 18:27:41
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Truth shall set you free :
Learned them at the end
2026-06-14 12:53:44
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cassandrajoy40 :
I like to say it’s worse than talking to a wall bc at least a wall doesn’t try to argue
2026-06-12 19:03:05
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annannannanna24 :
Omg I’m dealing with this right now. She keeps telling me how I feel about things and it’s completely not in line with anything I actually feel! It’s so stressful
2026-06-12 20:52:55
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Tyetie (Tyler) :
My favorite is “you think you know everything” - “you think you’re better than everyone” the list goes on
2026-06-12 20:08:09
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JellyfishSlap :
Everything changed when I finally realized this. My brother legitimately glitched the first time I said “I never said that and I would never say that because it is the opposite on my values. Perhaps that’s how you internalized what I actually said.” He knew I knew what he was doing.
2026-06-12 19:54:31
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Ona :
so. THIS is why my sister thinks I'M the narcissist? yeah, this is why im no contact
2026-06-12 20:08:41
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SCENOVA :
Perfect example: at the discard, he asked me, “do you like me or do you like the attention “and ultimately I think that was a question for himself
2026-06-12 23:11:08
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DoM :
Yes it’s so mind blowing once you figure em out
2026-06-13 06:57:53
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kittycuddlerNC :
My mother does this. Projects her behavior on me and shames me for it. It’s weird
2026-06-13 05:01:32
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Dee :
We don’t see the world as it is, we see the world as we are
2026-06-13 03:03:08
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Jade 💚 :
Told my mom the other day how a random man very nicely complimented me as I walked through a bar and she said “oh did you tell him you get it from your mother?!” 🙃🙃 no mom, I actually didn’t.
2026-06-13 00:35:45
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Coach Mika, Destination Lyfe :
This is very true and why over explaining makes everything worse.
2026-06-12 23:23:00
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Vanessa 🌻 :
My mother would say “you’re so cold!” Funny… took me forever to realize that was her not me! I was a child.
2026-06-13 03:28:00
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pusheenandsushi :
This is my brother. I cut contact and blocked him. No more.
2026-06-12 21:54:29
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𝒟𝑒𝑒𝓁𝓎 :
My mom always said I’m jealous of her I was a child I didn’t even know what that word meant
2026-06-13 01:07:14
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Yaseen :
I slowly got convinced I am in the wrong, apologising or accepting her new boundaries everytime.. looking back left with so much Shame, hypervigilance, insomnia ..
2026-06-14 09:29:06
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Brianna Jane :
My husband 100%
2026-06-12 22:04:21
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Carmela :
My mother
2026-06-12 19:20:29
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The Lovely Green Goblin :
Correct💜
2026-06-12 18:00:44
6
Kristy Krab :
This eventually caused me to lose my mind 🙃
2026-06-13 19:21:42
2
gusboat85 :
I’ve noticed!
2026-06-14 06:19:11
2
Madam Satan Whistledown :
🤣😂 yup
2026-06-13 23:47:21
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Gekke :
well said, took me 45 years to actually see and believe this
2026-06-13 06:35:23
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