Chloe Juliett 🌸
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Saturday 13 June 2026 16:59:21 GMT
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Thank you, also I hate the trend of “leave him or leave us out of it” - it doesn’t help women at all, sometimes they need to share stories, get feedback and courage and ideas to get out. Share your story! Please, I’m listening.
2026-06-14 08:16:08
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...ok :
I agree COMPLETELY I just don't know how to react when this is happening to someone you care about yk
2026-06-13 17:39:01
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jane :
i genuinely don't think i understand. but i am trying to. can anyone explain in a simpler way
2026-06-13 18:21:05
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bunrobxspls :
how do I help my friend 😁💔💔
2026-06-14 06:20:05
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Leia Heartless :
I literally love your videos, it almost always gives me new ways to think about things and I absolutely love it. You are so smart and I just wanna be your friend and just listen to your talk about every and anything.
2026-06-13 17:10:50
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delacola :
the whole "if you're not going to leave him don't involve us" thing on here really rubs me the wrong way. It's so dismissive and I don't think it's helpful to the woman at all
2026-06-13 17:46:48
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mikey⋆‧°𓏲ּ𝄢 :
yeah because reducing victims of abuse to individuals who’s brains “aren’t functioning” is so much better and totally not an infantilizing thing to say at all 😭😭😭😭😭
2026-06-13 23:57:32
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euphor9c :
It’s not misogyny at all. It just gets to a poin t, it’s draining being around someone who is in a toxic relationship and it can affect you
2026-06-14 01:10:33
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Dannielle✨ ADHD • Reflections :
Yes but also no. The question of why is STILL important. Having been in an emotionally abusive dynamic for 5 1/2 years in my 20s, the answer is never just about what the abusive partner is doing. It disempowers and infantilises people to strip them of any capacity or responsibility. Yes, people are caught up in the dynamics and in no way responsible for their partners actions, however, they are also playing out their own cycles and behaviours which need addressing. Human beings are incentivised to do any number of things, and until we have the conversation of what that’s about, these cycles often just repeat with the next person. It’s very complex and the lack of nuance in the conversation is unhelpful long term.
2026-06-14 06:45:27
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kate :
the people who say “just leave” have clearly never been in those shoes. It’s very simple to say “just go” when you don’t fully understand the situation
2026-06-13 22:50:32
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christineleckey61 :
when your brain is focused on trying to stay safe, scanning fir threats and trying to navigate the manipulation of thoughts, feelings, memories and relationships other people doing innocent things that make your life harder get the reaction that probably the partner should get. but its not safe to give that reaction to the abuser. its also usually not safe to "just leave"
2026-06-13 18:04:28
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✭✭✭✭✭ :
No. if you're not going to leave him don't involve us.
2026-06-14 06:59:14
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🌿✨𝑀𝑜𝓈𝓈𝓅𝑒𝓉𝒶𝓁🪱🐈 :
Sometimes it might be that simple but it’s never that easy. Trapping the victim and having them second guess their own experiences and the dynamic as a whole is one of the main functions of abuse unfortunately
2026-06-14 04:48:14
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Andy temix :
Proud to know my dad has never been like this
2026-06-13 23:19:07
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🐝🦯 :
huh agency and personal choice still exist
2026-06-13 17:11:00
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ella :
oh my god yes. when I was in an abusive relationship I got so much shit from “friends”
2026-06-14 14:14:25
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Albert Davis :
Interesting take....
2026-06-13 23:48:40
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gtavstripper :
i mean a lot of ur points r right but i have no clue how this has anything to do w misogyny bc it can go both ways js as easily 😭✌️coming from a guy who’s ex would’ve done the same thing 🙏and constantly had people asking why i wouldn’t leave her
2026-06-14 04:11:22
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Lexi 🍄 :
Two things can be true at once
2026-06-14 17:32:27
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xxkriswowxx :
So many people don't understand the abuse doesn't stop if you leave, especially of there are kids involved. It turns into a level of abuse you cannot imagine.
2026-06-14 11:12:07
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cstephaniem17 :
Like the appropriate reaction should condemn the perpetrator not shame the victim😭😭
2026-06-14 11:59:09
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What’s up chucks 🐻 :
I feel like people need to watch the little series “maid”. The scene of “I didn’t know what my favourite colours was for weeks when I got here” really stuck that in for me.
2026-06-14 05:59:21
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NeiNei :
I agree that the word “just” implies that the victim is dumb, because if it was simple to leave of course they would, that being said, I also think that it is disempowering to present the act of leaving as something extremly difficult, intstead I would say (and I had) “You can leave, and you should”
2026-06-14 06:50:24
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blank :
No it’s not lol
2026-06-14 17:01:40
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