@bethxshenton: i wish i knew this at 16 oh my #adhd #audhd #adhdtips #adhdcheck #neurodivergent

cherryterzza :

The rumination and dopamine cycle is crazy - meds truly changed my life

billievxox :

so draining to logically want better for yourself but your nervous system craves this :(

izzigshore :

Bingo

Aretha 🇿🇲🇬🇧 :

If it’s chaotic it feels comfortable, if it’s too smooth it’s worrying ..

Liudnute :

Ellanna :) :

UNTIL YOU CLOCK THE PATTERNS, don’t get me wrong it’s hard but you can work on it!! <3

louaxderton :

You might as well have tagged me girl what 😂

Hellz Bellz :

This 😂

neeks :

you just explained my life cba

som3oneinamillionn :

Could this be a reason for obsessively arguing? My relationship is healthy besides the part i frequently argue and I’ve always been extremely confrontational

Char 🦋 :

I literally hyper fixate on people so bad, then go cold…😭 I have to tell them I can’t do it. I have had to stop dating now because I’m not sure what I feel is real or just a hyper fixation 😭 my last relationship was so toxic, full of up and downs/chaos. 😭

Kaaaaaate :

I'm late diagnosed audhd and when I first discovered the term Limerence, my head rolled off. That explained every single relationship I've ever had and I knew I'd never be the same. I'm single now but out of choice and I feel calm and stable

P❤️‍🔥 :

Story of my life

Jasmin King Hairdressing :

Healthy is lovely for all of 6 months and then I get bored. I figure I’m better off on my own. When I say boring, boring to the point I get the ick

lynzistefani :

I feel attacked

kellyjoannaa :

This is me right now, I can see the red flags but I can’t escape it

Hellz Bellz :

We also can’t differentiate Limerence and actual feelings. Limerence is exciting and a hyper fixation when that leaves we think love has gone but actually it’s not supposed to feel exciting all the time!!!!

♡ᶠʳᵉʸ♡ :

I wish the wait for diagnosis wasnt 10 years

adventurer_mel :

THIS. But also realising that sometimes you might be the toxic one. I found someone who accepts me and it amazing and even then I still catch myself finding things to argue about just for a dopamine rush. You have to change the way you think and reflect on it as well as the other person