@mackenzieherman: First, I want to say, going no contact is the best way forward. BUT if you aren’t going to do that, then these will be the best way you can engage moving forward. #dismissiveavoidant #noconact #anxiousattachment #avoidant #attachmentstyle
well I did that, and she instantly got annoyed/mad because I was cold apparently 🥲
2026-06-18 19:26:18
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Chloe :
Always.Match.That.Energy.
2026-07-03 16:42:06
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KellyAnnRN :
What if you work with him & directly have to speak to him 😂
2026-06-18 15:50:05
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josierelationshipcoach :
Yes
2026-07-04 17:39:33
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Alvin Bonds II, Ph.D. :
Avoidants use those interactions as tests…
2026-06-18 16:51:19
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Authentically Amy :
Wow, this is so helpful! Thank you!
2026-07-02 15:51:15
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HoneyBadger :
perfect timing. we've been friends for too long to step off completely yet I so appreciate your advice. It's uncomfortable but matching his cadence has helped me to find some balance in myself
2026-06-19 00:36:28
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perryrankin295 :
im not making a move till he does. if he gives zero i give zero
2026-06-20 05:28:52
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Chloe❤️ :
he told me that he isn’t in love with me anymore. do they really mean this or is he just saying that?
2026-06-23 03:39:39
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conrankule :
quick question what are avoidance saying when they unsend a message?
2026-06-18 22:09:22
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Lúcia Barriga Negra Zome :
and if they are silence and only reply on a small group a friends, but i know it is for me?
2026-06-22 09:14:52
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If you know you know :
I know longer want to be with my avoidant but I do like contact and I've been doing similar matching energy keeping things light and fun and they are more consistent instead of Disappearing
2026-06-19 15:09:58
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hiraeth🪻 :
does eye contact counted?
They are starting at you when you're busy, but when you catch them staring they will look away and act focused on other things....
what does that meaaaannnn
2026-06-23 15:36:55
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Chad L.E McGhie :
Solid advice. Living with the separated wife still
2026-06-27 00:49:20
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AK :
Do you just stop talking to them or wait until a fight to stop talking g to them?
2026-06-19 04:12:10
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Pamski :
We've been part of the same friend group for 20+ years and a mutual friend passed away and we're both going to the funeral tomorrow. my plan is just to be part of the group and not act like I'm there to just see him. and not expect anything from him individually and keep it just about our friend we lost.
2026-06-18 21:08:14
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