@nydivorcelawyerkristen: "Future Faking" is a #dating RED FLAG! #divorcelawyer #divorce #relationships

GirlFromNantucket :

I believe that’s what we in the real world have always called “lying.”

Eli :

Have a convo about it ffs

TheAlignmentProject🫶🏻 :

I think it’s wild to compare children to a beach house. Not remotely the same concept.

the knowmadmomma :

yeah this already had a term it doesn't really need another term it's just called lying

…. :

That’s why I’m divorced

goldendaddy101 :

People need to understand things get in the way you need to learn to go with the flow of life like that’s the reality of it. And make responsible and discipline choices when the situation arises.

Carlot :

It’s called life

Mr. 1% :

No one can see the future

Allie🦋 :

That happened to me in September 2019.

jrenee.robin :

Future Faking is saying you will do something before commitment and then when you are committed you make no effort or do the complete opposite of what you said.

user4628305536116 :

House on the beach is a fantasy for most people but if you agreed on kids and one person lied, that’s a deal breaker.

Tyranttd :

It’s called life. You can dream all you want 🙃

gideon5678 :

That’s called life, gng. Sometimes things don’t go as planned.

Maximus :

Elara Voss :

We just called that lying 💯

themessywidow :

So exactly what has been going on for generations

Jamaicankev1603 :

It's a real thing

Streets of gold :

Prenup. Put it in writing

John J. Lee :

Called dreaming

joshgast :

so goals are future faking?

JoePolyglot :

Marry the person not the opportunity

Unbrchain :

It used to be called “alienation of affection”, and at one point was illegal in some states.

Mr.OZ :

It sounds like they had dreams and aspirations and life kicks in….doesn’t mean you should fall out of love…..unless that’s the reason you wanted to marry.

Sheena Barbee :

This is the exact reason why I told my now husband during our first date that I didn’t want kids. I wasn’t about to waste either of our times. Before we got married, I did multiple check ins with him just to be sure. His answer was always the same.🥰

Bbro43 :

2 things. 1 dreams don't always get to become reality because life just happens. And 2 sometimes your dreams don't come true becuase you didn't do your share of the work.