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Colly :
Firstly , I see you , I hear you. I would you consider stopping breast feeding ? And maybe try get him to sleep in his own bed? Don’t do both at once that’s to much at once , definitely once you get a decent sleep you’ll feel so much better
2026-06-29 00:26:44
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Duchess :
I operate on an 8am wake up, 12-2pm nap 8pm bed time. Clean nappy and bottle of milk before bed, we cuddle and put our 13 month in the crib in own bedroom with the lights out and riffraff lullaby playing. Kiss goodnight, we say we’ll be right outside and we leave the room. At first ongoing cry’s of protest for a week or so were typical and now cry’s for a couple minutes then lays down and goes to sleep. Boundaries and rules because they’re old enough to understand. Unpopular opinion but we’ve never co slept and don’t use a monitor. Was off the boob and onto formula at 3 months to avoid weaning issues. Sometimes you’ve just gotta put a stop to it and allow them to get used to how you need the house hold to operate. I promise you they are totally fine adjusting. Best of luck.
2026-06-29 11:44:09
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Mic_Rosie :
100% when your sleep deprived it is SO HARD!!
2026-06-29 00:32:07
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Kristin Scott :
I feel like you said everything I am currently breaking from
2026-06-29 04:04:04
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Rochelle Manuels :
im struggling with this too the thought of weaning and maybe being able to get some sort of sleep sounds great but the thought of being done with breastfeeding breaks my hard. my daughter is an IVF baby and potentially my only baby ever and so giving up these things is extremely hard but we are in survival mode at the moment
2026-06-29 00:58:50
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Jordana ★ :
Remember every stage is only a phase and it will pass. Embrace the suck sister, you’ll get through this stage and jump right into another one for the rest of our lives hahahaha motherhood is really fkn hard and us mums are so incredible cause this shit is EXHAUSTING lmao
2026-06-29 10:01:36
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Charletello :
I feel for you girly, my girl is about to turn 1 and has a lot of teeth and still bf and it’s hard when she still is waking up 6 plus times a night. Hoping to stop bf soon 😅
2026-06-29 00:25:39
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Alicia :
get a bigger bed if you can.
2026-06-30 03:06:26
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Loz Hummel | Boy Mum 🇦🇺 :
The stage between 1yr and 2yrs is harrrrrd! They can’t communicate well or at all, they’re clingy, they need you all the time! Feeling you girl! I know it doesn’t help right now but it gets better I promise! Sending strength! ❤️
2026-06-29 00:30:16
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HannahNZ :
Yip toddler mum life is rough 😅 I'm a new follower so not sure if your already doing this, but putting my one in preschool 3 days a week changed my life ✨️
2026-06-29 01:24:40
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Melissa :
I’m still breast feeding my 15mo but have moved her into her own room. She does alot better now that I don’t sleep with her. She however has now starting hitting and getting upset at the littlest things. It’s hard, sending love ❤️
2026-06-29 01:27:49
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Lesha✨ :
You can put yourself first hun. He is still loved the same amount if you start to wean or start transitioning him out of your bed. Your needs are really important too 🤎
2026-06-29 11:17:32
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Elle Childs :
21 month old here and girl… I feel you! I am not BF anymore but omg the sleep deprivation is real. Solo mum and I don’t get a minute of rest. It’s lucky we love them so much
2026-07-02 08:39:16
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Romz :
me with my first baby! i thought i was going crazy! When she started resisting any kind of sleep situation, rocking, patting and co sleeping. We dis cara babies sleep training. I debated for months and finally on a difficult night i just did it. I worked. that kind of taught me that kids are so adaptable and that i was the problem. it takes about a week or 2 to resolve any behaviour if you are consistant. i was a better mom when i got more sleep. anyway shes 3 now and wakes me up to pee every othe night and then she wants to jump in my bed...soooo
2026-06-29 20:56:09
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Orkalie Tanem :
Im going to start by saying I never had to deal with the toddler stage. My youngest was 5 and the oldest was 11 when I adopted the 3 of them so I dont know toddlers. I do however know that it is NEVER to young to introduce self help and boundaries and respect for someone's personal space. Im not saying to stop cosleeping or breast feeding but talk to him. Tell him "mummy has an owwie so we need to use a paci today" or maybe get him a toddler bed for your room? Its not a one off solve all but it might help to start transitioning?
2026-06-29 00:23:14
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2026-06-29 19:46:25
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Morgan Dews :
You are doing amazing Mama! if you felt up to it, I would recommend talking to Sure Sleep (on Instagram)... you can do a 15 min free call with her to just get some advice and see if working with her might help. We did at 15 months as we were co sleeping with my daughter and it was NOT working anymore for us. Was convinced it wouldn't work for us but everything changed within 3 days. will recommend for the rest of my life haha. was life changing
2026-06-29 09:33:51
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Mic_Rosie :
My toddler was boob mad and it was the only way I got her to sleep - I was sooo over breastfeeding but the thought of stopping was like HOW?!?! Trust in your timing with it, I was like to her one night no more ( yes it was a shit night but then never asked for it again ) and I just cuddle her to sleep. It has been so freeing and my tolerance for her toddlerness was so much better and also has been sleeping through 🫠🤪 you will know when it’s right for you 💕
2026-06-29 00:37:23
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Desiree | MAMA 💙 :
I could've said exactly what you just just explained myself with my 15 month old. Im struggling i feel so guilty & heavy... I feel like i almost at breaking point if I dont get some rest.
2026-06-29 05:05:39
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nance🌻 :
My girl is the same age as yours. We still cosleep (have so since she was a month old) and she still nurses to sleep. I find she only attempts to bite if she’s teething or if she’s being cheeky. Either way, when she does I tell her the milk is all gone. I might have to a few times and she might get a little upset. But I keep telling her that if she bites the milk is all gone. It has helped. Now when I feel her getting ready to bite, she stops herself. In saying that, she might destroy my nips tomorrow because, well, toddlers 🤷🏻♀️
2026-07-23 01:54:01
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Lady S :
Breath, you got this mumma. You are not alone!! I'm currently going through the stage of just going through the motions. Motherhood is hard work and we tend to feel so alone and undervalued xx
2026-07-03 12:41:03
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2026-06-29 17:10:18
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Jenn Shelton :
Girl, relatable. My boy was in my bed and feeding at 1.5 years, I didn’t know HOW it would ever change. Then I got prego with my girl and I just made the change straight away. He’s 4 now, she’s 2. They both sleep in their own beds 🙌🏼 sleep deprivation is the Worst!
2026-06-29 08:40:05
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brionysander🍒 :
my girl is 14mo and I feel this 😞 its such a hard stage. I was co sleeping as well but started getting her to sleep in her own bed and she and I sleep much better now. is this something you could try?
2026-07-01 12:52:18
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appleblossom37 :
the exhaustion alone puts anything over the top 💖
2026-06-29 00:53:13
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