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m.b.energy
M & B energy :
if the other person wife come be my star mate nko
2026-08-22 00:31:51
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omoh8013
Omoh :
na trending things
2026-07-07 10:13:56
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ivanotechworld
ivanotechworld :
more wisdom
2026-07-01 13:56:17
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lady.b0687
Queen Olufimo 👑👑💯 :
confirm sir 👍💯💯💯💯
2026-07-20 08:03:07
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babankwara
Ijoba BamBam :
what if they don separate
2026-07-22 03:09:34
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jimoh.ibrahim.ajad
Jimoh Ibrahim Ajadi :
thanks you too much
2026-07-01 01:41:58
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ayusbabe7
Abeni🥰 :
very Very bad
2026-07-19 00:14:52
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user8150876510270
DADAWA PRINTS :
More wisdom sir!
2026-07-09 12:15:53
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walleria81
Adewale Adegboyega(OFR) :
I pray they hear o
2026-06-30 18:24:06
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otunba.olayode.aki
Ọmọ ìyá àgbà lotuife :
Thank you sir
2026-07-02 09:48:01
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alhaji123lamide
ALHAJI LAMIDI :
Remain Blessed Forever.
2026-06-30 09:27:44
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omojolaakandeadel
OBA ADELEKE :
more wisdom for you brother
2026-07-01 17:09:10
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delimer85
oludeleabolaji :
true talk
2026-07-02 12:51:58
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kollyboy007
KOLA FORTUNE💯 :
more wisdom bro 🥰🥰🥰
2026-06-30 13:12:54
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user71910137374850
oladokun hammed Ayofe :
confirm talk
2026-07-01 18:57:08
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tayelampard
🛜🛜Taye lampard🛜🛜 :
That’s different
2026-07-07 15:54:25
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adekunlekeem
wise and cool guy :
shuffle solo. this life hmm
2026-06-29 18:24:39
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m.b.energy
M & B energy :
what is the best solution
2026-08-22 00:33:23
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bolanlekudirat5
@bolaposh1234 :
you're said it all 🙏❤️🥰🥰🥰
2026-06-30 05:53:54
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akoredetanwa
💝Olori Akorede❤️🥰😘 :
Wise 1👌👌👌
2026-07-05 05:32:51
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davidadekunle90
prince 🤴 :
yes oo
2026-07-03 17:26:41
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user5578232613542
Adeshina Ikolaba :
to have concubine is inevitable
2026-08-23 19:09:57
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sulaimonsheriff
Adisa💞ola :
thanks for this
2026-08-11 14:15:42
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user8848172975607
A saheed E :
confirmed✅✅✅
2026-07-12 15:55:48
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aish3446
Aish :
more wisdom sir
2026-06-29 08:20:34
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The general consensus is that avoidants are scared of closeness, commitment, and vulnerability, right? But... It’s a lot deeper than just that. For many, what they're really scared of is the >expectation< that comes with it. They don’t just dislike vulnerability and what that means; they fear the >responsibility< of being seen and what that expects from them. See, once they connect with you, they start believing they have to: - Stay emotionally available - Respond the “right” way or often enough - Match your depth - Regulate your emotions along with their own - Be consistent - Be the version of themselves that made you feel safe, over and over again - Lose freedom  They simply can’t sustain that version of themselves. The version we fell in love with and cling to during the bad moments. They are BOTH the person who shows up and shows love deeply, AND the person who acts like it doesn’t even matter.  ❗ It's important that we recognise that even though their behaviours are harmful, toxic and for some, abusive (not making excuses here), they don't act like this because they DON'T care. It's because care to them feels like >pressure< and pressure triggers their coping system: dissociation, defensiveness, shutdown. So it’s easier to run, hide, and pretend it doesn’t matter.   ⚠️ This isn’t an excuse or an acceptance of their behaviour! It’s an explanation to help us stop taking their withdrawal as a reflection of our worth. We often take their behaviour and treatment towards us and make it our responsibility and our fault.  So please, don’t supress yourself and your needs to feel tolerable to someone who panics when you get close.  Drop a ❤️ if this resonated, or save this as a gentle reminder: it’s not you, it’s THEM. #relationshipadvice #breakuprecovery #ex #nocontact #avoidant     

The general consensus is that avoidants are scared of closeness, commitment, and vulnerability, right? But... It’s a lot deeper than just that. For many, what they're really scared of is the >expectation< that comes with it. They don’t just dislike vulnerability and what that means; they fear the >responsibility< of being seen and what that expects from them. See, once they connect with you, they start believing they have to: - Stay emotionally available - Respond the “right” way or often enough - Match your depth - Regulate your emotions along with their own - Be consistent - Be the version of themselves that made you feel safe, over and over again - Lose freedom They simply can’t sustain that version of themselves. The version we fell in love with and cling to during the bad moments. They are BOTH the person who shows up and shows love deeply, AND the person who acts like it doesn’t even matter. ❗ It's important that we recognise that even though their behaviours are harmful, toxic and for some, abusive (not making excuses here), they don't act like this because they DON'T care. It's because care to them feels like >pressure< and pressure triggers their coping system: dissociation, defensiveness, shutdown. So it’s easier to run, hide, and pretend it doesn’t matter. ⚠️ This isn’t an excuse or an acceptance of their behaviour! It’s an explanation to help us stop taking their withdrawal as a reflection of our worth. We often take their behaviour and treatment towards us and make it our responsibility and our fault. So please, don’t supress yourself and your needs to feel tolerable to someone who panics when you get close. Drop a ❤️ if this resonated, or save this as a gentle reminder: it’s not you, it’s THEM. #relationshipadvice #breakuprecovery #ex #nocontact #avoidant 


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