@kyndal_ricks: Continuation of Fathers Day.. I am sad the exchange went the way it did. I did take all of this directly to therapy to work through my emotions and the exchange itself. I am proud of myself for being firm on my boundaries and standing up for all 3 of my kids. Because of that they all got to go which is something they were deserving of from the start ❤️‍🩹 #singlemomlife #vulnerability #Vlog

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meweiter
meweiter :
Personally, I wouldn't "push" anything. I'd document on paper, save text messages, voice mails, who he took, when, how often, when he cut visits short, etc. That way if there are ever custody disputes, you have the upper hand. I'd let the boys slowly see his choices as well, not bashing, just factual and supportive allowing them to form their own opinions.
2026-07-01 18:26:22
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tskerski78
tskerski78 :
You will work this feeling through therapy. If there is any advice I can give stop feeling guilty. The situation is not easy, it was not created by just you. You put a lot of blame on yourself and it breaks my heart seeing that. You’re a great mom and always there for those boys. It’s hard when you don’t have them. I get it. You’re giving the opportunity to them to be with both parents. It’s difficult and the hardest thing you have to do as a single parent. Keep pushing you got this.
2026-07-01 01:12:42
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sensat78
Courtney Sensat :
Your doing a great job momma
2026-07-01 01:01:15
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michellefeinberg4
Michelle MyBell :
Don’t apologize for mentioning therapy, it’s something so many people get and others need to hear about it so they are encouraged to get therapy.
2026-07-01 01:28:31
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nstutz2
Natalie :
I’m in a similar situation with you.. thank you for sharing
2026-07-01 01:01:39
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rayray_m151
Rachel :
Do all 4 boys have the same dad? You mentioned 3 here so just curious or if you are having to navigate two rough co parenting relationships. You are in my thoughts and prayers and are doing amazing! 💗😭
2026-07-01 01:14:20
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teecel
T’Anna :
I am going through a similar situation. I have 3 little girls & just a couple weeks ago they started to stay with their dad every other weekend & it’s been soooooo difficult because my daughters have always been with me & we have never been with out each other. The 1st weekend they stayed with him all I did was cry & counted down the days/hours they would be back home. I hope one day it will get easier because I dread when it’s time for them to leave because I miss them so much. ❤️‍🩹
2026-07-01 02:17:14
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babysky1999
Sky :
I’m sorry girl. I couldn’t even imagine not having my baby with me 😞 you’re doing amazing
2026-07-01 01:58:51
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jhcstukbsaiibccg
Rue :
I will never feel guilty making my partner parent. You really do so great compared to people I’ve seen! 💝 ♥️
2026-07-01 01:47:42
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user894418485
mynameismom⭐️ :
Don't ever be sorry
2026-07-01 02:34:51
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alannafitz1
alannafitz1 :
Hang in there girl! You got this💙
2026-07-02 18:16:53
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daddys_home47
Daddy’s Home 2025🇺🇸 :
Do exchanges in a safe place that you feel comfortable. Do not interact with him when doing the swap, unless it absolutely necessary. Ignore him and once kids are bucketed up you say “ Good bye, have a good day.” Then get in your car and leave. Ignore any text unless it’s about the kids and it’s important, keep messages short and sweet. Show him he doesn’t bother you.
2026-07-01 09:48:53
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lukeskywalker236
Luke Skywalker :
Kyndal, don’t apologize girl! Head up, we know you’re doing a fantastic job for your kids!!
2026-07-01 01:34:03
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reginaaaa907
regina || PMOS :
For more toxic exchanges some people do transfers in a public space or police station parking lot. It helps have a safety part or even get a car camera so you get proof of thing she says to you.
2026-07-01 01:27:12
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edithw1312
Edith :
You can do exchanges inside the police station. It might help make it neutral
2026-07-01 06:55:08
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user8144236941461
Sheryl :
This seems so simple but it is a saying that has helped me through difficult conflicts and situations. You can only control what YOU can control. You can’t control how your co-parent acts, but you can control how you react. And I am sure you are doing all you can to never let your boys see your anger and hurt, but continue to be positive. You can control how they see you speak about their dad. You can control how you interact with him. The boys will see that and in time you will come to feel less guilty about how things are because you have controlled your portion of the narrative they see
2026-07-01 01:53:09
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leala_h_
Leala.H :
I’m so sorry, you’re doing so good by your kids, I wish he had the respect to do the same
2026-07-01 02:17:47
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urbestiecilla
urbestiecilla :
Never apologize ❤️
2026-07-01 09:42:56
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rleofidthmg
. :
Don’t be sorry for your feelings! I completely understand!
2026-07-01 16:08:48
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kimraeburn09
Kim Raeburn :
Honey bite your tongue and never be sorry! You’re doing amazing! That’s a trap he sets! Be strong and aware! I’ve been in your shoes 🥰
2026-07-01 04:44:45
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marjolinos80
Marjolein van Liesho :
itbdoes get better, I had a hard time when my daughter had to go for the first few months, she was screaming at first, but the more we did it, the better it got. it takes a while, but it will be better. hugs for you momma
2026-07-01 17:42:49
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brandihern
BRANDI ✨ :
Sending you all the love, I know how you’re feeling 🫂❤️‍🩹
2026-07-01 17:58:36
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tammy7777
Storm🇨🇦 :
Use the time to hang with your oldest and refresh yourself, take some time to recharge
2026-07-01 18:55:03
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janice.jacobs45
Janice Jacobs :
It is good for their dad to have time with them. If he's a good dad, they deserve love from both of you. You should not feel guilty. Just because the two of you were not compatible does not mean the children can't enjoy time with him.💜 You're doing amazing
2026-07-01 19:26:31
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roxannepadilla615
roxannepadilla615 :
You're an Amazing mom and don't deserve to walk on egg shells or bite your tongue when all you are trying to do is create a healthy co parent relationship. trust that God will see you through. Keep your head up momma ❤️
2026-07-01 21:51:29
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