Kirsten🏳️🌈
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Wednesday 01 July 2026 19:28:28 GMT
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Jasmin :
I am 31 and lost my husband. I began to fuck around one month after it. Because it felt like it was a different life. One i dont have to be a widow. So just know, some of us dont judge you for anything. Grief is a bitch. And will always stay with you, but you made grief your bitch.
2026-07-20 09:48:45
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BK :
You were NINETEEN. Give 19 year old you some grace
2026-07-01 20:40:29
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Lorin Franzi :
nah, it all sounds like pretty normal behaviour for a traumatised teenager. what colour did you dye your hair
2026-07-02 01:09:34
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Itscumplicated :
Man..I just came from ed Sheeran part, I wasn’t prepared for serious stuff
2026-07-20 14:54:00
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laur :
damn... i come from the guitar tantrum part, i can see why now why you were with him
2026-08-06 10:42:01
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arin 🌌 :
the worst part about these kinds of men is they know how to be good and then they don't
2026-07-27 19:24:12
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sarahcha :
From a psychology major, this is all normal trauma response. Give yourself grace, you were doing your best and that means something ❤️🩹
2026-07-02 17:05:03
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Wmissio._… :
Wow episode nine finding its way in my fyp while I already know what happens in episode 37
2026-08-07 04:57:36
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Eliseleusificus :
Could not judge a person for the messed up stuff they do to cope during grief. I’m really glad you made it out to the other side ❤️
2026-07-01 19:51:26
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Katie :
Self destructive behavior is common for people dealing with crushing pain and depression. I know, lived it for years. So impressed you figured it out so young, took me many Many years
2026-07-28 00:26:48
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MissJessel 🍉 :
No judgement. No judgement for one second. You were in agony. Agony doesn't just change people, it mutates. Nothing but love for you. ♥️
2026-08-06 15:53:43
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Me. :
Now how was this guy the same guy from the later parts?
2026-09-03 10:25:27
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noidonoydon :
I picked up this series in the 50s, and was laughing and feeling seen because of my own ex from hell (who I met immediately after a big loss when I was all kinds of fucked up) so I started back at the beginning…oddly enough, this was exactly the backstory I was expecting. I did all the same things as you. Or tried to, anyway. I don’t think anyone who’s had a sudden, overwhelming, unfair grief like that would ever judge anything you did or could do. You really will do anything just to be doing…something.
2026-08-29 16:44:39
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Appalachian Arsehole :
when i started this series it thought "oh shes gonna be with quinoa for awhile then be happy ever after with Eric" 😭
2026-08-31 06:40:57
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Azul :
Who would judge you for this? It only shows how devastated you were. I wish I could hug baby Kirsten.
2026-07-02 13:40:20
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Jennifer JoAnn Kaser :
Don’t judge yourself for what you get you did to cope with the worst thing that had ever happened to you.
2026-07-01 20:18:25
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piplupverse :
do not judge yourself! you were so young
2026-08-04 18:34:47
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wobblybeanbear🇳🇿🏳️🌈 :
Grief is wild. No one should or could judge you for it.❤️
2026-08-05 07:58:42
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🌈 🕸️ 𝔐 𝔦 𝔩 𝔬 🪐 🌌 :
Is it bad that I really like quinoa 🫠
2026-07-01 19:40:15
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charlie......wyd :
Always remember to extend the compassion you give to others towards yourself too. Easier said than done. Grief is a monster and makes a lot of people do things they are not always proud of. I’m glad this is something you can share and I think it will be helpful for other people who have gone through the same/similar experiences. I’m so glad that you’ve been able to see it through that time in your life, despite grief being an everlasting thing. You’re doing amazing ❤️
2026-07-01 23:46:45
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𝘤𝘩𝘶𝘶𝘺𝘢𝘴·𝘣𝘦𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘥ღ :
Grief is such an odd thing, we all cope differently, we all react differently. Do not shame yourself for how you tried to cope. You tried to cope in the only way you knew how, you were 19. Give yourself some grace.
2026-08-11 07:30:47
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liddlebunny_ :
I did some of those same things at 19 with no where near as much of a reason so please be okay with yourself
2026-07-28 01:02:24
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Lia :
Please don’t blame yourself on anything, grief comes in many forms when my dad died I had zero reaction the only thing I did was turn on the tv and watch naruto 24/7 all of that while thinking I was handling it well people didn’t see me for monthssss and I’m sure if I had someone like quinoa I would 100% fall for it
2026-07-02 06:44:38
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knc11 :
Hi, I’m 19 listening to this and holy shit I could never judge you for anything you just said. I cannot even imagine going through something that devastating at this stage in my life. You are and were so strong
2026-07-20 19:33:21
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