@notaveryhubert: 🧠 Comment “app” if this video hit home. Some people don’t control you with anger. They control you with sympathy. They always have a reason. Always have a story. Always have someone else to blame. So every time you try to talk about your feelings… You end up comforting theirs instead. Little by little… You stop bringing things up. Not because your feelings stopped mattering. Because carrying theirs became your full-time job. 🚨 And this applies to both men and women. Manipulation is not about gender. It’s about keeping control by making someone else feel responsible for your emotions. If this pattern felt familiar… Trust that feeling. Save this. ✅ The people who always seem like the victim aren’t always the ones being harmed. #narcissist #manipulation #emotionalabuse #toxicrelationships #psychology