@eemansaidso: How many women can imagine coming home to a hot meal, already plated and served on the table? Can they imagine waking up in the morning, breakfast and kids already taken care of by someone else, and all they have to do is get ready, eat, and then leave for work? Men get to live this luxury. And they're so used to it and feel so entitled to it, that they take it as a given. Like oxygen in the air. Something they don't even have to think about. Same for things like childcare, a clean and maintained home, laundry etc. Women also sacrifice their hobbies, their me-time to take care of the family, while men's hobbies and rest are prioritized so much that the whole family schedules their days around them. Men turn all women (and kids) around them into their personal servants. This includes mothers, and mothers in law, sisters and sisters in law, wives, daughters and daughters in law, grandchildren...even female roommates they're not related to. By default, their setting is to siphon others labor to serve themselves, maintain their own comfort, and subsidize their own life. #marriage #marriedlife #genderroles #manchild #invisiblelabor

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rifaishere
rifaishere :
Someone said “marriage is the only way poor men can have a housemaid and free labours” and this is stuck with me.
2026-07-25 10:48:04
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manisha.html
Manisha ⚡️ :
They’ll combine their earnings with their wife and start micromanaging her spending as if it’s all his money
2026-07-25 14:06:34
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imagine_that124
imagine_that_girl :
All I can say is team up with woman and help one another.
2026-07-26 07:13:52
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seyzadestini
Immaculate Vibes :
even a poor man is king in his home
2026-07-25 08:31:51
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kingiethecrow
Diana :
Ladies - don’t be Bob the builders … don’t settle for less whether you a housewife or a working wify. Remember that a man treats you the way you let him 💡
2026-07-24 23:46:35
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bri_7680
B :
Men do not provide anymore. If both partners have to work marriage is absolutely pointless!
2026-07-25 14:46:25
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chris.w5468
Chris W :
‘It takes a village’ is based on the free labour of older women. I’ll be part of the village when men put in half
2026-07-25 01:59:32
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amy.l057
AMY SERAFIN 🔫 :
We aren’t putting up with it anymore
2026-07-24 21:19:22
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8336ify
ifyali :
totally agree, it's a piss take, just say the man does that for one day, oh he will take pics n none stop saying, 'I did this' I did that 😏
2026-07-24 20:49:16
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sellthings31
sellthings :
And use the excuse of wanting a women to build him up... even when they claim of building together it always pretty much means " Build him at the expense of herself"
2026-07-24 23:17:07
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tanya__mcquoid
tanya__mcquoid :
Yup. And it can happen to anyone, even if you are beautiful strong confident and smart. Never trust their words, just their actions.
2026-07-26 06:47:40
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deardzienny
principessa :
This is why i want to be rich so i can hire maid, chef go to spa and do my nails every months. No way i become men’s maid
2026-07-25 02:20:15
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foofie101
Foofie :
Even women who ours earn their husbands or support the entire family contribute a lot to domestic labor
2026-07-26 05:47:56
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reginaincer
Regina Incer :
And don’t forget about those mom’s who also have a job and are expected to cook meals, clean the house and take care of the kids.
2026-07-25 01:11:29
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oursonswillnotbewarlords
My name is Tara 🩷 :
And for some reason it’s somehow seen as more acceptable to equate his earning a lower salary to her doing more work. Like he deserves more from her labor while she gets even less of her needs met.
2026-07-25 01:20:58
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cidccccc
Zimmy :
My mother😩
2026-07-26 03:35:31
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sacredvictorygarden
SacredVictoryGarden :
SCREAMING
2026-07-26 05:02:23
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smooth_operator_2001
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who thinks this is true?
2026-07-24 20:20:59
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terid614
Teri D 🥀 :
Even HIGH income women fall prey to this.
2026-07-25 15:08:37
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maryeam77
Maryam :
This is the reason why all women want rich husbands now bc they have picked up on the fact that only a wealthy man will benefit us in marriage.
2026-07-25 22:17:26
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dekoz23
dekoz23 :
Skip the burdens!! Save your nervous system!
2026-07-25 12:12:12
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sellthings31
sellthings :
Exactly. And these men feel entitled to it by claiming what about love blah blah or how shallow women are. Its the audacity
2026-07-24 23:14:58
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benswolo8
benswolo8 :
And thats why the more female dominated work places tend to be underpaid and minimum wage. Thats why there isn't more push and more action to change minimum wage to a livable wage. Any labour we do is always seen as a sacrifice to benefit them and their society, not us
2026-07-25 03:18:47
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random2.0291
Random2.0 :
It was my ex, sitting on the sofa all day (if he wasn’t sleeping off another hangover), all weekend while the kids and I cleaned around him, that made me realize he felt entitled to that labor. He would help maybe 1-2x every 3mos or so. But otherwise, he felt like the effort of putting his check in the bank was so significantly harder that we should be willingly and happily cleaning up after him. 😂
2026-07-25 02:45:44
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lostchildxo
V 🇵🇸 :
Made my man pay for a chef and for house cleaners lol, stay safe yall.
2026-07-25 20:11:58
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