@andrealouiseoracle: What you tolerate and what you accept becomes your standard. When you raise your standards, people have no choice but to respond accordingly and the ones who can’t meet them won’t have access to you anymore. Lack of boundaries, people pleasing, accepting confusion, hot-and-cold bullshit, accepting less than basic fucking respect all of that is a reflection of how you value yourself. Because if you truly value yourself, you wouldn’t keep accepting behaviour that makes you feel like shit. And that might be uncomfortable to hear, but at some point you have to stop asking “Why are they treating me like this?” and start asking “Why am I allowing it?

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Tuesday 11 August 2026 00:25:07 GMT