Antonio Breez
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Thursday 20 August 2026 01:39:37 GMT
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One Spicy Coconut :
All those non-emotional tasks are easy for an Avoidant but emotions are overwhelming. So they feel like they are succeeding in life bc of all the things they're "good" at and endorses their behavior in relationships. Its a false sense of success to silence the noise they don't want to deal with.
2026-10-06 13:41:38
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Aston & Annabelle :
Antonio, you are never wrong. Never.
2026-08-20 12:57:48
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Stacy Hayden Gonzalez :
Not true. It’s because their parents made them feel that was the only way to be valuable
2026-08-20 14:52:07
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✨jackie✨ :
100% spot on!! Thank you for validating this observation. It used to drive me nuts. Because he always had loser jobs. Plus I’m older than him & make a lot more money… it became obvious that he was also trying to look “important & valuable” at his shitty job
2026-08-20 01:53:47
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Valencia Storm :
You know what…. I have noticed that with avoidants.
2026-08-20 12:11:49
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Scarlet Priestess🌹Rhiannon🌹 :
mine doesn't. he has dreams of being a literal hobo.
2026-09-03 17:12:47
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SCORCHEDURPLE :
Can confirm they will absolutely volunteer for every extra curricular or over time activity they can get. Anything to be away from their family and keep that autonomy. In fact they often get promoted. lol
2026-08-20 14:57:42
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Krys🔻🔻🔻☭ :
mine hated his job, bitched about it constantly but would give that shit 110%, up late working on projects, going in early af, overtime out the wazoo bc he enjoyed the constant praise/validation of being told he was "the one they can always count on"... the same man that couldnt tell you what his kids' favorite colors are and never remembered the one night a week he was responsible for dinner. oh the irony
2026-08-20 17:05:06
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Nursetiffk81 :
They act like they're a neurosurgeon and you have a whole career but their job still comes first
2026-08-21 00:58:12
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Anna Sieben :
True! I’ve always thought this. Deep down they know they are defective in other areas of life so they need to compensate and job seems like a socially acceptable excuse most of the time
2026-08-20 09:10:23
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Adhiambo Valerie :
This is the most accurate thing you have said about avoidants. I have experienced this first hand!!!
2026-08-20 12:32:17
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Tidbitsofwisdom :
still childhood Performing!
2026-08-21 11:07:02
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Heather :
100000% and not just romance but ALL areas that require vulnerability and connection.
2026-08-28 20:49:54
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💝 :
avoidants expect you to give everything theyre not willing to give. dont walk. run.
2026-08-25 11:21:09
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Mouse :
This is suuuuper accurate.
2026-08-21 08:37:42
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NOFN999 :
Because they always want a way out. They want to be able to run away…
2026-08-28 16:11:09
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tea_tyme_thyme :
I FINALLY realized that about 3 years into the marriage… worked cause he did not want to FEEL anything! Anyways, divorced 2/2026! 🩷
2026-08-20 13:24:53
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ExquisiteMysteria10 :
mine always claiming to be busy because he makes himself busy then gets mad that he doesn't have time for himself then when he takes said time he's just napping. he was drunk alone the other night and had to leave work early the next day for being hungover. creating problems for work, working 2 jobs but not knowing how to sit with himself???
2026-08-28 00:57:54
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Malak Gebirah :
yup yup yup
2026-08-28 02:35:46
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gabby :
💯💯 exactly what happened with my relationship with my ex 5 yr avoidant.
2026-08-26 19:24:47
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Glen Lotz :
yes money before love
2026-08-21 15:57:43
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Tati :
You just keep hitting the nail on the end 😭 - FA
2026-09-09 10:57:30
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Nursetiffk81 :
Look when is your book coming out! Because this is DEAD on!
2026-08-21 00:58:44
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srfn333 :
This is on point 💯 my avoidant drains me. We are 5 yrs in and we ended it because i cant anymore.
2026-09-11 03:53:23
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Corsha Wilson :
This is true!
2026-08-22 10:45:34
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