James Clark
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Wednesday 16 September 2026 17:40:59 GMT
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marolikescats :
as a girl i’d rather be picked up by the guy it’s cuter
2026-09-16 17:47:02
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kirsten :
People when a date actually takes effort
2026-09-16 17:46:26
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emmysmama3 :
People when they have to actually put effort into a relationship
2026-09-16 19:36:26
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seyi ☆ :
some dude was talking about “no thanks i’d rather be at home playing 2k” do that then?? 😭😭😭 ??
2026-09-16 18:58:12
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Amber 🇨🇦 :
Remember when dating was COURTING? Men trying to show why they’d be the best partner for a woman? Yeah it’s that still. Bring your A game guys!
2026-09-16 21:13:20
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Flxffy :
the comments that gave me the biggest ICK was the guys that were saying “why would i spend that much time and effort just to not get some after the date” i’m like are we dead ahh rn?
2026-09-16 19:38:37
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🖌️🐺★«L⁰wk 🄲⁰nn⁰r»★🦣🐾 :
they don't want to put in effort is the thing. like bro if u want a gf you have to put the effort how do u not understand that 😭
2026-09-16 18:21:21
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Caroline :
men are so hot when they put effort in. i’m tired of this “nonchalant” nonsense. ur not getting anything with that 😂
2026-09-17 01:57:17
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kenzie_fitt :
and this is why it’s so hard to find the right one, a lot of men think women aren’t worth putting in effort and actually take them out on said date bc they’re scared of the aspect of DATING
2026-09-16 18:42:23
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💙 :
I’d rather drive myself on the first few dates just for safety but yeah I’d rather you pick me up
2026-09-17 04:20:06
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starr_8888 :
The car thing is mostly (MOSTLY) about safety, if it’s a first date and y’all don’t know each other that well, I think it’s a safe idea either getting a car around/from your place.
2026-09-16 19:19:27
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Day :
going on dates now adays just is not it
2026-09-16 17:47:14
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Danielle :
I think they got mad because she said to not suggest sleeping together after. Pissed them off bad.
2026-09-16 21:13:35
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simply.chris :
i feel like a weirdo, i stopped letting a man pick me up on the first few dates. i need to know i can leave at ANY given moment no delay
2026-09-17 03:54:04
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merp :
lol at first, I thought you said send her a *card,* not car. I was like damn, does it need to be certified mail, too
2026-09-16 20:43:01
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SunshineLove :
James, it’s literally is like this in the actual dating world now. Men have nothing to base how they should be off of that’s why when you make content of treating your girlfriend like you should and treat her good because that is normal. You are doing such a great job to help other men Learn how to be. You have these really dumb podcast where these men actually hate and despise women and they give advice, terrible terrible advice to these men and it confuses them.
2026-09-16 22:03:09
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Ky 🧸 :
As a woman that was one thing I disagreed with as well. I don’t know a car service driver any better than the person I’m going on a first date with, it’s not much safer.
2026-09-16 18:20:04
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Juju 🩷 :
Someone said “just to hear ‘bare minimum’ yeah no thanks” THATS BECAUSE IT IS THE FUCKING BARE MINIMUM, go above and beyond and get her dessert and flowers or something 😭
2026-09-16 21:47:35
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Ionic 0-0 :
Love supporting small creators ( this trend so stupid but I wanna feel included)
2026-09-16 17:44:36
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sleepytimehorse :
Some Guys saying “i wouldnt do this for someone i dont know” isnt that the point of a DATE😭
2026-09-16 22:20:36
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leyla 🦦 :
they don’t wanna put any effort then proceed to complain about being alone
2026-09-16 18:05:03
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chloehnoelle :
for safety/comfort, i usually drive myself for the first couple of dates. i won’t uber. i am a control freak tho so to each their own.
2026-09-16 20:03:13
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Neal Shelley :
The sending the car thing was wild
2026-09-16 18:05:23
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erinreadyy :
I don’t wanna be picked up or given a car on a first date. DONT GIVE UR ADDRESS TO STRANGERS
2026-09-16 19:21:03
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❦𓆩Fendii.Boop𓆪❦ :
Me after seeing those comments and immediately went to go rewatch the video to see if I missed something. Just stunned and confused (judgemental) silence afterwards. Prepared to be single a little while longer😭
2026-09-16 19:45:59
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