@mackenzieherman: Physical intimacy is used by an avoidant to help regulate them. And the typical avoidant has a high s3x drive. Let me explain. #avoidant #attachmentstyle #fearfulavoidantattachment #dismissiveavoidant #theyalwayscomeback
When they have emotional intimacy from you, it makes them feel so good, they’ll go out & get physical intimacy from other people. Wow, isn’t that wonderful?
2026-09-20 15:29:54
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Scarlet Priestess🌹Rhiannon🌹 :
instead of saying he misses me, he initiates sex with other people
2026-09-18 04:36:59
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Radu :
yesssss, they even cheat when your love and faithfulness is too much for them, ain't that cute ?
2026-09-17 19:50:17
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Paul Spencer :
Been there, done that. I will never do it again 😢
2026-09-17 23:51:33
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Luke Gray :
my ex wasnt physical during the day but always wanted me to hold her all night im asuming the same principle
2026-09-18 12:08:19
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Brianna💋 :
Omggg this is my bd 💯
2026-09-18 00:47:15
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alice :
If they initiated a kiss, but then became uncomfortable less than a second in and pushed me away, is that likely from trauma?
2026-09-18 11:46:50
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RL :
At the beginning I thought my avoidant ex was trying to eat me alive... 200% physical intimacy [Unschuldig].
2026-09-17 19:51:35
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Yolis 💋 :
He’s known me for over 14 yrs but recently reached out for a hookup. He was my neighbor and was my ex’s friend back then but now won’t even meet me face to face! 😫 It’s been 3 months!
2026-09-18 01:52:06
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Corey 🇨🇦 :
Actually my ex she has more trauma in the physical intimacy department then anybody in this world should have to experience. Like so much that at one point I had to tell her to just hold off on telling me more because I was trying to process what I was already hearing. Imagine the worst thing you can think of and times that by 20, and she spent four years living in environment like that. But she really didn’t have issues in that department which I thought was interesting. Her biggest thing is fear of being responsible for someone else’s emotions, losing her autonomy an agency. It’s so bad with her that she’s not able to communicate most of the time. I’m someone with you bad PTSD because of the military in my own relational traumas, but with her she can literally end up in the fetal position when she’s triggered, completely dissociated feeling trapped. The most tragic part is I know that she does love me and I know that I love her, but she’s not able to step towards me again. The more you care about something the more it hurts when you lose it, the more devastating on your life it will be
2026-09-18 19:29:11
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ME‼️Kentucky :
You have been so spot on every single thing 😏
2026-09-18 16:35:55
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iamZOG :
Performative
2026-09-17 21:12:11
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