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4ry_m43
🫪 :
Hanging out with other people is being busy, why would I have to explain to you what I’m busy doing and just because it’s hanging out doesn’t mean it’s not important. I was still busy
2026-09-27 04:58:30
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lilbrightbean
bean :
I don’t think anyone owes someone an explanation on how they choose to spend their time, that’s kinda weird. If they’re busy then they’re just busy and that’s that idk 😭
2026-09-27 06:44:34
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jordiaz01
Jordiaz01 :
Yes that is called being busy, when you commit to plans you already had with other people before you asked. I don’t owe you full explanation of what exactly busy means, but I will at least offer you another day that can work for both of us.
2026-09-27 12:24:23
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zukini1
Zukini🫍 :
That literally is them being busy tho? Busy with someone else
2026-09-28 10:49:08
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valeriaamezcua288
Vale💋 :
O wow so everyone in the comments just bad friends
2026-09-29 19:16:16
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lmw.2007
😋👍🏾 :
It’s not about over explaining yall but if i ask to hang out and you’re like “can’t, i’m busy.” instead of “sorry ml let’s plan something next time im doing something with someone else today!”… that’s what genuine friendship looks like.
2026-09-27 13:06:57
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x.stfu.riah.x
Jane Doe :
That is busy and can’t do something tho. Especially if they know you’ll get upset if they tell you what they’re doing or who they’re with, they’re not gonna wanna tell you what it is. Busy is busy, not everyone wants everyone knowing what they’re doing in their free time 🤷🏽‍♀️
2026-09-27 06:41:10
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zeta_5612
Zeta ⊙⊝⊜⁷ :
If I tell you I'm busy and can't hangout that's enough of an explanation dude😭 Now unless they made those plans AFTER you asked, there's no valid reason for this to be an issue
2026-09-27 15:24:42
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diimaaa010
ديمه Dima :
having plans with other people is being busy
2026-09-28 10:21:22
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jay.jesus21
Jay💋 :
I literally be saying this all the time🤷‍♀️
2026-10-11 07:06:08
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shuggsinnerthoughts
ꜱʜᴜɢɢ :
like it really doesn’t take that much time to communicate “hey, i’m hanging out with so and so today, maybe another time”… communication is not a hard thing to do. it’s not even that you have to do it, it’s you being considerate that matters
2026-09-27 12:10:04
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_.alyy7
aly :
if someone has to do something else is busy and if he doesn't tell u why what is the problem? maybe i didn't understand what u mean
2026-09-26 16:07:28
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avanunley09
ava メ𝟶 :
well technically they are busy
2026-09-27 16:53:18
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daddyywilliam
kai :
wait but hanging out with someone else is still busy..? you’re upset bc they didn’t specify what exactly they were busy doing? that’s kinda crazy no?
2026-09-27 21:27:04
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user685278284
HealtoliveLivetoheal :
I’m so confused. They’re hanging out with someone else, but they said they’re busy. What’s wrong with that communication
2026-09-27 09:24:14
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tick1eme3lmo
Alicia⋆˙⟡♡ :
if they’re busy why do they have to go into full detail that it’s with another friend? if they said they can’t or they’re busy it falls under the same category
2026-09-28 01:18:17
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_.andy._.wotthee
Andreia 🙂‍↕️ :
They’re killing you in the comments but I get what you mean, I’m always the second option and I just wish they were honest with me instead of pretending. It doesn’t kill you to say you already have plans “busy” I usually think work or school
2026-10-04 23:22:48
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_little.sodo_
🎭𖤐Nathan (Sodos #1 slut)𖤐👻 :
Well.. in a way they are busy tho? 😭 Unless the plans are made after u ask I personally don’t rly see the problem, they can’t hang out and tell u that
2026-09-28 17:11:28
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d4za1shusb4nd
😴👼🏻🪞 :
Did it ever occur to you that that could be the reason they said they were busy? because...yk... they already had plans with someone else?
2026-10-03 13:59:44
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heloimsai
Sai🇹🇭 :
Can we normalize saying things like “hey I’m busy that day but I’m free this day if you want to hang out then instead!” 😩
2026-10-03 09:22:59
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starrylily97
Lily(Damon's version🖤) :
Those who don't understand her point have probably never been excluded from plans with friends. My bestie and I were trying to choose a day to meet, it was a Sunday but we ended up choosing the Sunday after. I was like okay, cool. But then the same Sunday afternoon she was out with another friend of ours and I got so angry because why couldn't she invite me too since we also had to meet one of those days? She didn't tell me she was busy, I just found out through IG stories. It hurts. And people who don't get it are probably those who treat their friends like this
2026-09-27 19:30:00
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hxbridxx
L💐 :
The communication isn’t the issue. Yes they’re implying they’re busy, as hanging out with someone else proves that, but you can be less vague about the situation and give more of a detailed reason. It’s not that hard to just say “maybe another day, I’m hanging with _____ today” and leave it at that. Yall need to stop with the “I don’t owe anyone anything” mentality, it’s so selfish and inconsiderate to another persons feelings
2026-09-27 12:06:59
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_whowho._
Whowho 🧟‍♀️🏹 :
Idc if they tell me they're busy, bcs that's literally what it is. But my friend told me she couldn't, bcs she was having problems with moving from her father's house (her parents are divorced) and told me she couldn't bcs she was out. She then posted ig stories with our old group of friends. Safe to say we don't longer talk.
2026-10-03 08:22:19
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thaareal_.memeh
Meme😴✨ :
That’s literally them being busy if I’m doing something with someone else other than u I don’t gotta tell u hey I’m hanging out with blank girl no I’m busy doing something no I cannot hang out with
2026-09-28 16:26:47
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ang32265
Ang :
We’re to grown to lie. If I ask to hang out and you claim you have no time. Then I turn around and find out you made time for someone else then don’t get surprised when I leave. We’re adults just say you either don’t want to hang out or already had plans. The issue is the lying. Some people are just automatic liars and then claim “oh I thought you’d be upset”. Why would I be mad with the truth🤨 just be honest. And if you don’t want to hangout then let’s stop the relationship/friendship.
2026-09-27 17:21:30
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