@chooseyouwithkeysha: Here's what the avoidant really taught me: I was never afraid of losing him. I was afraid of being alone with myself. That midnight spiral — the replaying, the checking, the story you build — was never about him. It was the anxious pattern running the show. I stopped spiraling the night I stopped auditioning. Stop Spiraling Tonight is free — link in bio. 🤍

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casuallyaiyana
Aiyana Thompson :
I loved him so much I fell in love with myself
2026-10-07 06:01:32
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odd.alice98
odd.alice98 :
Taught me to stop over explaining myself, to stop chasing after someone who only offered me distance, to stop shrinking myself to become easily digestible, learned my emotions aren’t too much they’re just seen as too much for someone who doesn’t even hold space for his own feelings. How you can’t force someone to take accountability. This one hurt the most but I’m thankful for the lessons.
2026-10-07 06:16:52
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msinsurancelady1
MsLicia :
Girlllll he was like the final stage of my childhood codependency....it won't ever happen again 😌 Can't thank him enough.
2026-10-07 03:01:33
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okketay
Ok :
An avoidant will prepare you for life
2026-10-07 09:07:19
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_kyyym710
Kimberly Washington :
He was the final let go and the little girl in me needed it so much to finally release all the choices she's made off wanting to be loved and protected.🥺
2026-10-07 02:53:44
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lovelyjas222
Jas🌙 :
I learned and it brought me to god.
2026-10-07 03:58:18
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dsdfxbhb
D :
It forces you to truly choose yourself.
2026-10-07 10:26:03
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beautifully.authentic.me
beautifully.authentic.me :
told him, " thanks for loving me your way".
2026-10-07 04:53:34
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bekomingkim
BekomingKim :
Literally catapulted me into my healing! The best worst thing that could have happened to me
2026-10-07 04:56:51
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solitareen
Solita🌀 :
I'm so greatful
2026-10-08 06:47:13
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dawn366022
Dawn 💕 :
Turned me into an avoidant myself and I love it here 🥰😂
2026-10-07 08:08:14
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.starseed777
.StarSeed777 :
It’s soooo heartbreaking but teaches you how to truly stop looking for love outside of yourself
2026-10-07 05:55:56
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nakiba.spencer.coles
𝑵𝒂𝒌𝒊𝒃𝒂♡ :
So ignore him and focus on myself got it. NOTED. 💕
2026-10-07 11:49:40
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myuhwya
Myuhwya :
an avoidant man is avoiding u bc he doesn’t like u he’s not avoidant to the one he wants
2026-10-07 08:04:34
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amarukur
Amarukur :
And you learn what you actually want in a man lol they help prepare you for a better man honestly. I say it all the time I’m thankful it happened when it did I couldn’t see myself settling older going through that . He can be a good man and just not good enough for you ladies remember that!!
2026-10-08 06:05:27
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mapenzivalerie
The Matriarch :
I could never hate you Bojack, you mirrored me back to me.
2026-10-07 14:33:51
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m9s8a9
m9s8a9 :
true but he made me so sad .. and I’m NOT saying thank u
2026-10-08 04:59:25
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254faithpendo
fay pendo 🩷💛 :
finally someone has said it 🤌i went through the lessons and I'm more sharpened like Fr fr
2026-10-08 04:25:50
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cassiemarcum413
Casandra. :
it's the most painful path to femininity a women stuck in her masculine will ever go through ❤️
2026-10-07 06:18:24
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theyluvsynnn
⛓️ Synn ⛓️ :
It taught me how to be more selfish, and how to show up for myself.
2026-10-07 17:38:50
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nakina0382
Nikki :
I agree. he triggered my healing. best gift ever.
2026-10-07 07:05:04
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krystalravyn
RAVYN RN :
YESSS I have NEVER been so secure in my whole life after the end...it will NEVER happen to me again and I am SO confident to set my boundaries and be my best self!
2026-10-07 12:30:49
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jegh.boutique
Jegh Boutique :
The hurt and abandonment brought me closer to gxd. The trauma even brought me to abstinence….. I’m so careful who I allow in my life.
2026-10-07 14:18:45
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j_marie_thats_me
Jennifer O. :
Ugh but it nearly killed me
2026-10-07 04:31:33
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onna.belle
Corïanna💋 :
I’m such a thinker I be trying to figure out both sides
2026-10-07 04:56:43
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