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iam_wvillagran :
Solid question. This is exactly why I’m in a season of isolation. I refuse to traumatize anyone else from my unhealed self. & refuse to be traumatized by someone else’s
2026-10-26 13:12:43
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yayaa :) :
but how do you know you healed?
2026-10-26 21:05:05
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shortcakkeusc177 :
Yes, 100% amen
2026-11-09 02:44:27
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Zahra Ahmed :
I can’t forgive him, is easy to say but is hard to do it
2026-10-26 14:50:02
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TheRealHer :
You have to forgive yourself first
2026-10-26 14:29:56
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@Capricorn_ ♑️ :
You should never move on unless your heal yourself because you don’t want to hurt the person that didn’t hurt you
2026-10-26 13:23:35
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Thatgirllray_ :
How do you know how to forgive a person?
2026-11-05 15:35:23
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@BarbieBeautyG7💅💕 :
That was a great question but I don’t think they fully understood it or maybe I misunderstand but when you truly heal you take those lessons with you and you make boundaries having boundaries to be loved the right way and the way you have learned to love yourself isn’t putting them through something unnecessary it’s setting the standard of how to treat and love yourself isn’t putting and if they can’t accept or a middle ground can’t be accomplished then more than likely they aren’t for you and you should move on or that is where you end up in a trauma loop dealing with the same thing la that hurt you in that previous relationship..
2026-11-08 23:45:47
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Mimì :
I would ask how to tell when we’re dealing in a new relationship from a place of closure or of boundaries. Because sometimes I feel like I can’t say if I’m cutting off a man out of triggers/fear or because he was stepping on one of my boundaries
2026-11-08 20:40:36
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Biscuit :
I needed to hear this message wow thank you so very much.Thank you
2026-11-08 16:50:04
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Tateona 💜 :
Def a solid question. ✨
2026-11-08 13:19:52
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Genitaa "GeGe" Hawkins :
Lance just fineee.... but he is right
2026-11-01 12:11:02
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Trena :
Absolutely True
2026-11-08 13:30:26
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🌟Awo Angela :
Gosh that’s me I am soo scared of men the the worst part is I haven’t dated much at all but is soo serious how one or two people can scar u n then u see other women n hear words like all men cheat then why bother been with him
2026-10-26 08:28:59
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Just Jess :
Discernment and creating and respecting your boundaries.
2026-10-27 14:09:18
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Flawlessly_imperfect💋🍷 :
That’s a great question
2026-10-26 06:27:44
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Bille k :
Trauma loop? Zero men will understand what that means!
2026-10-26 22:37:28
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Amie Ferrer :
Heal and forgive yourself too.
2026-10-27 03:07:32
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Savannah Bae💛 :
Great question and great insight! Love this!!
2026-10-26 06:20:31
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nope :
im unbothered. I leave all that hurt behind. I healed. self sabotage is a real thing it happens when you get hurt after. heal and use your own discernment in the future
2026-10-26 03:21:00
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msdeevinefavour :
Thank for the Trauma Loop explanation
2026-10-27 07:41:21
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Caylub Hayes :
And this is exactly how my relationship to the love of my life is ending rn 🤦♂️. I’ve never been more frustrated, confused, or angry at someone I love before. No communication cuz it’s always an attack on me because she thinks I’m her ex and is talking to other girls. But this damn woman doesn’t get it! It’s only ever been her! She is my everything 🥺.
2026-10-26 14:26:37
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Tracey :
Attachments make you suffer from all situations in life and love, attachments are built from your thoughts, and we all need to learn that we are not our thoughts, we are the observers of them. Emotions are usually only last for 90 seconds, our thoughts are the ones that keep them alive, again we are not our thoughts. At certain times I would try to focus my time and energy on things I can control rather than the things I can’t, but as soon as these memories flooding back inside my head, they always do, especially at the most unexpected moments, then I just keep reminding myself to take a deep breath and telling myself “I am not my thoughts”. This is how I teach and train my brain to rewire my thoughts, it’s scientifically proven through neuroscience, it’s all about biology and science ladies, keeps studying your body and your mind is the best way to heal 🙏💋❤️
2026-10-26 15:53:58
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miy35814 :
😭😭😭 omggg shes saying exactly what I’m thinking and feeling
2026-10-26 14:12:42
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𝓜𝓪𝓲 ᥫ᭡ :
Love Kitty she is so knowledgeable. It’s about calibration - calibrate to what you want, if your previous relationship created or changed you to calibrating to fear (thinking you have to fear being hurt again) then you need to first be aware of how that comes across and instead calibrate/operate from love (or what you want) and find trust in yourself during all.
2026-10-26 16:22:37
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