Choose your kids. You would never encourage your daughters to continue this merry go cycle with a man. This is not healthy. I’ve been here, leave. Don’t look back. You have an obligation to teach your sons to be good men, and daughters to never accept crap like this. You’ve been doing this for years. It’s time to rebuild a life that’s healthy for you. Rooting for you.
2026-10-30 00:10:24
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ForeverTXGirl :
Listen... you can still love him & chose yourself! Love doesn't just disappear... However, loving him from afar is the best you can do for someone who does not want to change.. You can not save him if he doesn't want to be saved..
Now you have to be your own hero & show your daughters & your sons what Love & Life is!! Trust me.... I know... I had to let go after 16 years & full of excuses 😪 I've been 3 years single & I can breathe, I don't have to think about coming home to see what kind of mood he is in, if he is drunk or high, mad or happy... Now I live in peace.. Am I lonely? At times.. Do I pray for what could have been.. Sometimes... But, in the end I finally realized I COULD NOT SAVE HIM... I SAVED ME INSTEAD [Red heart]
2026-10-30 16:45:35
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Meg 🖤 :
Trauma bond 😭 Gotta break the cycle babe and stop going back. You and your kids deserve better.
2026-10-30 14:40:42
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Wake up call :
They can come see me tomorrow
2026-10-30 00:09:37
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tinkerbell_belinda :
You can love him at a distance! Remember you aren’t a doormat! Prayers 🙏
2026-10-30 00:27:59
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Jessica Leigh :
Love and cheer him on from a distance. The toxicity and back and forth isn’t good for your children. If you don’t do it for you, do if for them. You’ve got this! It’s hard to break a trauma bond. Have you considered therapy (don’t answer that as too personal), but just a thought!
2026-10-31 16:53:09
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Allisha Allie Lynne :
Nothing wrong with loving someone from afar.
2026-10-31 04:11:34
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Dee 💜 :
You don't have to stop loving, or stop caring. You're able to do that from afar; while healing pieces of you & your children & mending hearts you never intended to break 💖
I've been there...I'm stillll there. and I promise, it gets better; it gets easier and life becomes bearable...even enjoyable again ✨️
2026-10-30 00:49:40
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TooGoodForYou :
🙏♥️Hang in there beautiful lady! It will all work out in the end, for you.
2026-10-30 02:22:18
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NewOrleansNic :
Grieving someone that is still alive is one of the hardest things you will ever have to experience! Big hugs babe. ❤️
2026-10-30 04:09:23
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Carrie :
Of course you do , stay strong
2026-10-30 00:12:46
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Wake up call :
Hey wyd
2026-10-30 00:05:28
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🎀Liza-Cardio Queen🎀 :
It's your life not ours, your choice to stay or not....and obvious you still love him, especially him being the father of your child....but also remember our kids see and hear everything! They will do what we do and I don't think you would want yoir daughters living a life like this....I wish yall the best!💕🙏
2026-10-30 17:09:11
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Wake up call :
How’s the kids
2026-10-30 00:09:16
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Miss ✨️ :
🙏🙏🙏
2026-10-30 01:09:23
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